Remember the day-the day it all fell apart?
You thought you were doing so well and keeping it all together. You knew you were exhausted, knew you couldn’t keep it up much longer, but you didn’t know what the breakdown was going to feel like. That day-that horrible day.
So where do you go from here? You worry people think you’re crazy, in fact, you wonder yourself sometimes. You’re not sure what to do-you just know the world feels very, very, dark. And you don’t want to live like this forever. You don’t have to figure this out alone. NLP can help you learn to breathe again and help you remember what peace feels like. You can learn to listen to yourself again. In fact, you can learn to love yourself again!
No one can do it all. No one. Yes, I said no one.
NLP is based on the fact that…
We do what we do because we feel the way we feel.
We feel the way we feel because we think the way we think.
We think the way we think because we believe the way we believe.
So often we end up with unconscious beliefs that run our mind without us even realizing it. Beliefs such as “I have to get everything right or perfect so people love me” “I am not enough so I keep having to try harder” or “I am not worthy of love so I have to earn it” can deeply affect the way we think which in turn deeply effects how we feel, think, and behave. Certain beliefs can lead us to unconsciously create a mental map that leaves us exhausted, frazzled and without a clear direction. NLP Bounce Back coaching can help in the following ways.
- Permission: Bounce Back will help you learn to give yourself the permission to be your truest, most authentic self. You will learn exactly what you think and what is most important to you and no longer feel the need to apologize for being your most effective self. Giving yourself permission to be your best self means you can get all the things accomplished you must do in a day because you will be confident in your priorities and no longer be trying to accomplish what other people think you should be doing. You will know what you want to say yes to and know what you want to say no to without guilt! You will no longer live the life others think you should live because you will be confident in where your own internal map is taking you. You will learn to give yourself permission to create boundaries in your life so you can have energy left over for the most important priorities in your life.
- Confidence: Confident people have an internalized map outlining their ability to do something successfully and efficiently. We all have to figure out what personal strength we have to utilize to create the best version of our lives and become our own superhero. Some people lead with intelligence. Some people lead with connections. Some personality. Others with power. While still others lead with kindness and love. Bounce Back helps you create your own map of strengths and surround yourself with people who allow you to work within those strengths to prevent emotional burnout. Together we will also uncover hidden areas of strength that are still waiting to be discovered!
- Freedom: Hidden beliefs can hijack our brains and drain us of energy without us even realizing it. NLP Bounce Back coaching will reveal the barriers that currently have locked in your current position, restraining you from freedom and independence. After Bounce Back coaching you will have the freedom to make life work for you rather than you working for your life.
- Ability to Solve Problems: Neuro-Linguistic Programming helps you create a mental map of your own personal superpowers and access the strongest parts of yourself during life’s most difficult moments. Confidence is knowing that your current emotional state does not have to be permanent, because you have everything you need inside of you to pick yourself back up. Times of uncertainty and failure become times of creativity and adaptation. And, eventually those failures lead us to new beginnings. NLP Bounce Back coaching will create a map out of emotional darkness and into confidence and light.
- Core Identity: Neuro-Linguistic Programming is like a user’s manual for the brain. Learning how to become fluent in the language of your mind allows you to finally understand who you really are. After leaving the Bounce Back program you will know exactly what you are about which will help you lead a life of effectiveness rather than business.
Confidence coaching involves a regularly scheduled 60-minute phone call every two weeks and a check in email in between sessions. During this time we will discuss the following:
- Clarify the areas of life that are making you insecure.
- Assess what specific areas of confidence you want to work on.
- Review your resources and options.
- Create an action plan.
- Strategize ways to keep you motivated.
- Strategize ways to keep pushing you toward your goals.
- Celebrate your awesome successes along the way.
Bouncing Back isn’t a checklist, it is a transformation-a new way of looking at every conversation, connection, and opportunity. Bouncing Back is changing the way you think about life so you can give your best self to the world by shedding the beliefs, responsibilities, and relationships that are currently holding you back. You have a gift and that gift is you! The gift may have been hidden by perfectionism and people pleasing and you may even have to dust off the cobwebs, but it is there and it is beautiful. Learning your worth means moving past your current emotional state and giving your best self to the world.
You have been so, so strong and that strength has given you the ability to handle hard things. Now let’s channel that strength into bravery so you can make the changes you need to create the life of your dreams.
Bounce Back Better!